My Life

Spring — A Time of Renewal
By March 30, 2013 1 Comments Read More →

Spring — A Time of Renewal

I sit here on the patio gazing across the yard at the little stream, the birds hopping and playing and the squirrels chasing each other. While I still have to wear my jacket to be warm enough, I think spring is finally on her way. At this time last week, we had a Winter Storm [...]

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Going Home Again… | Memoir Essay Example
By June 1, 2012 1 Comments Read More →

Going Home Again… | Memoir Essay Example

Note: A memoir essay is just a story from your life that isn’t book length. There’s no rules about how many pages — 1, 2, 10, 100 — just not enough to make a book. Below is a memoir essay; a short one so you get the idea. I hope you enjoy it! It’s the [...]

Happy Birthday Bill | The Golf Shoes
By May 18, 2012 0 Comments Read More →

Happy Birthday Bill | The Golf Shoes

May 5th, Cinco De Mayo, my father-in-law would have celebrated his 74th birthday. Unfortunately, he passed away 14 years ago at the tender age of 60, so young. My husband and I are back in the area where my father-in-law is laid to rest after a 15 year absence. We got flowers and went to [...]

The Prodigal Son Returns
By March 11, 2012 0 Comments Read More →

The Prodigal Son Returns

It’s been a rough 3 years. Four moves in three years but each time, for the better. Ever notice how the “event” that changes your life seemingly happens instantly but the recovery process takes forever? Not a completely true statement but that is the way it seems — or the way it is perceived. One of [...]

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Deja vu | Something Was Wrong
By January 3, 2012 0 Comments Read More →

Deja vu | Something Was Wrong

Two years ago this past December, I had the worst day of my life. I wrote about it in a short essay titled Something Was Wrong — A Daughter’s Story. It lives with me everyday. Two nights ago, I had a bit of deja vu. It was New Year’s Eve afternoon and we were moving [...]

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Stimulating Memories | Memoir Writing
By October 20, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Stimulating Memories | Memoir Writing

Today, I was gearing up to clean house. This is quite a chore right now since we are also in the midst of packing and moving. But, since I had uncovered some dust and debris while wrapping and packing treasures to take to the new house, I figured now was as good a time as [...]

September Morn…
By September 28, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

September Morn…

I walked to the steaming coffee pot this morning, after a pit stop in the bathroom, filled my Mickey Mouse mug to the brim with the aromatic brew and headed to the front porch. Still a bit chilly but I was hoping the cool, crisp air would lift the fog that had settled on my [...]

The Dance
By September 22, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

The Dance

The prompt for this short memoir writing was – “A Serreal Moment in your Life.”   The glorious light — amber, crimson, and gold with hints of azure — had a life unto itself. Beautiful even as it consumed its victim. Shimmering and swaying at the mercy of the wind, the dance continued. It would [...]

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Why Read Memoir or Life Story
By August 26, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Why Read Memoir or Life Story

“This post is about me – I know, I know, why would anybody want to know about me and my life? I’m not a celebrity, tops in my field or famous in any way, shape, form or fashion (at least outside of my mind). I don’t have a rags to riches story nor have I overcome [...]

Memoir Writing Prompt
By August 25, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Memoir Writing Prompt

I sat in a hospital room with my father today. As I looked at him frail and weak, I couldn’t help but think how this person wasn’t daddy. It was, of course, but my memories are of a strong, full of life career Navy man. His flat top and straight posture always in attendance. His [...]

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Greatest Christmas Gift Ever!
By August 23, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Greatest Christmas Gift Ever!

It can be intimidating, knowing where to begin. After all, you have a lifetime of information and memories floating around in your head. Recently, my brother came up with a wonderful gift for my parents — a journal to help them get started with their memoirs. The Story of a Lifetime: A Keepsake of Personal [...]

Front Porches | Life is Good
By August 10, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Front Porches | Life is Good

Since staying with my parents, we have developed a routine of taking our morning coffee on the front porch and discussing past days and years and supposing what the future holds. Mom sits on the porch swing, me on the old bench from a defunct pizza parlor and dad in a chair. I look at [...]

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Remembering
By July 18, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Remembering

I have been trying to put together a story about my dad’s time in Vietnam. Earlier this year, he was finally listed as 100% Agent Orange diabled through the VA for one of his on-going ilnesses – Ischemic Heart Disease. Since we moved North, we have been staying with my parents while we recover a [...]

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Memoir Examples | Memoir How To
By July 6, 2011 1 Comments Read More →

Memoir Examples | Memoir How To

I have been diligently checking through my analytics to find out what people that are landing on my blog are searching for. Examples of memoir writing is near the top but another item bringing people how to write a story from your life. I have written a lot about story elements, what makes a tradition story and [...]

Discombobulation | A State of Confusion
By June 13, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Discombobulation | A State of Confusion

Discombobulation — yup, that about sums it up. The mother in me is having a hard time dealing with “no kids” after our recent transfer from Florida to Indiana. Our daughter will be joining us again in August. My logical mind knows this but the emotional side of my brain is still mourning for the [...]

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Graduation | A New Beginning but an Ending to a Mom
By June 5, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Graduation | A New Beginning but an Ending to a Mom

I sat forward in my stadium seat, straining to get the first glimpse of Haley as the graduates marched in to the familiar strains of Pomp and Circumstance. It wasn’t easy to pick her out of the 677 students. They weren’t arranged alphabetically and she had just said, “right side, close to the middle”. Beside [...]

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Moving is a Pain!
By May 20, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Moving is a Pain!

Moving is a pain but necessary for brighter tomorrows! Getting ready for a garage/moving sale tomorrow (5/21) and packing feverishly, so my online time is limited. My blog posts will be erratic at best until we get moved. I appreciate your continued reading! The good news is I am making new memories that I am [...]

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It gets Easier…
By May 15, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

It gets Easier…

Yes, I am finding that going through a similar situation, it gets easier. When we lost our business in the economic recession, it was like the end of our world. We were going through personal and business bankruptcies and keeping only family memorabilia. We sold everything else we owned to finance a move south in [...]

Amusing Ms. Fate, Ms. Karma & Lady Luck

Amusing Ms. Fate, Ms. Karma & Lady Luck

Life seems so much easier with a plan. Slow, comfortable and expected is a way of life for some people. However, my life has never been that way — I wouldn’t know what to do if it was! Fate, Karma and Luck have always had a lot of fun with me. If nothing else, I’m [...]

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Where the heck is Easy Street? Did I Miss the Exit?
By April 11, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Where the heck is Easy Street? Did I Miss the Exit?

Where the Heck is Easy Street? Did I Miss the Exit? I hear on the news that the recession is over and things are improving. They have a different view from their window than the one from my small apartment. I thought I was on a parallel boulevard to Easy Street at one time: a small business owner [...]

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My Daddy… Always
By March 7, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

My Daddy… Always

The past couple of weeks have given me a roller coaster ride of emotions. Some I have cherished, others I will  never forget and wish that I could. My dad had an emergency double by-pass on Sunday, February 20th. He came through the surgery wonderfully and was off the ventilator in record time. The prognosis [...]

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My Daddy | My Life
By February 19, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

My Daddy | My Life

Tomorrow (Sunday), about this time, my dad should be in post-op after having undergone open heart surgery for a double by-pass. I know these type surgeries are done everyday, successfully, but not to my dad. Sitting here, a thousand miles away, I feel helpless. I’m not sure what I would be doing if I was [...]

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“I Remember…” Exercise | Memoir Examples
By February 7, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

“I Remember…” Exercise | Memoir Examples

Natalie Goldberg and Lou Willett Stanek agree that “I Remember” are the magic words for memoir writers. This means you can do your research from an easy chair — close your eyes and say “I Remember”. What comes to mind? What’s first and what comes next. The mind doesn’t always work in linear fashion. One [...]

Parents for Life
By February 3, 2011 2 Comments Read More →

Parents for Life

My parents just left after a two week visit with my family and my brother’s family here in Florida. I miss them so much… already. Each time we say goodbye, I wonder if I will ever see them again. They are both in their early 70′s and have a few health issues. Mom is doing [...]

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Choices, Choices, Choices
By January 26, 2011 0 Comments Read More →

Choices, Choices, Choices

One of the great things about life is all the choices we are able to make everyday. One of the bad things about life is all the choices we are able to make everyday. Contradiction? Sure. True? Sure. Writing, for me, is a way to get my thoughts and feelings out. It’s therapeutic, cleansing and helps [...]

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